I Cancelled Date #7 and Here’s Why

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50 fat dates50 Fat Dates follows my plus size dating quest to find Big Curvy Love (girlfriend’s in her thirties and looking for a man…don’t judge.)  I’ve challenged myself to go on 50 dates over the course of  one year and share with you my dating stories, plus size dating tips and lessons learned. If this is your first visit make sure to catch up!~Kelly

 

I was super excited for the $100 date I met on “What’s Your Price” and even personally asked Wendy Williams her opinion when she was in LA.  I was reluctant to give out my number to the $100 date but after an hour long phone conversation decided to do take the risk.  We had decided on a time and location when he changed the direction of the conversation:

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Urgh. Really? That’s code for “I live with roommates and want to go to your house for sex.” I had a choice to either keep texting or to cut it. Then he started getting all fetishy about my weight.
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Yuck, instant turn off and a red flag. We haven’t even met in person and I was creeped out. Did I want to keep this going just so I could experience a $100 date or cut it off right now?

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As much as I was hoping the What’s Your Price wasn’t going to be be about trading a meal and $100 for sex I knew that’s exactly where this was going. We really did have a fantastic connection on the phone but with my question about him being a weed smoker and now this I thought that I should cut it off but being strong.

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And thats it! The end of the $100 What’s Your Price date. I had already removed my profile a few weeks ago. I had another two offers but it seems as though a lot of people are on there testing the waters ( I certainly was.)

Kelly Glover is an Australian living in Los Angeles and created this plus size fashion blog as a place for curvy women to get info and advice on plus size dating, celebrity and fitness. contact@bigcurvylove.com
  1. Reply

    Good for you – what a jerk! Better to find out before wasting your time.

    • Allie
    • May 18, 2016
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    I guess I don’t properly understand where his having a preference for fat women is rude, or a problem. I get asking about roommates, but I simply don’t understand why he’s an asshole for admitting to appreciating fat bodies, and being honest about it. You said you brought it up somewhat abruptly in conversation, the fact that you were fat. Maybe he wanted to put your mind at ease. Whatever the case, I guess my point is that it’s rather frustrating to see women who supposedly want their potential partners to appreciate their bodies turning around and making people feel like ‘fetishist’ creeps for appreciating someone’s body as it is. You have no problem stating whether someone is your physical type– does that make you a creeper?

    If you don’t see yourself as inaccessible, I’d give this instance some consideration. It’s cool if you’re not comfortable with talking further about someone’s preferences, and you have every right to say so. I get your other reasons for shirking this guy. Ostracizing someone for preferring fat partners is pretty messed up, though.

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    Hi Allie, thanks for your comment. He doesn’t have a ‘preference for fat women’. He asked if I lived alone then said “for some reason, occasionally, something about a very voluptuous woman, makes me totally get extremely excited” as if I should be so very grateful that once in a blue moon he is for some unexplained reason is sexually attracted to fat chicks. This doesn’t put my mind at ease at all before even meeting in person. Choosing not to continue isn’t ostracizing it’s making a choice.

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